Before proceeding with
new life experiences that began during the events described in the essay College
Years: 1953 to 1969, a backward journey into the earlier years of my
life needs to be expanded. Experiences
with family relatives added greatly to my growing up. Details concerning how Granddad and
Grandmother Graham were a large part of my early years and were covered in
earlier essays. These earlier essays
included brief mentions of experiences with Aunts, Uncles and Cousins. These experiences were thought about earlier for
inclusion in previous essays, but the essays were already becoming too lengthy. My intention was to write this essay sooner but
composing it kept being delayed. Thus,
during the writing of College Years and Price
Genealogy Update essays, it became obvious this essay should be written
before proceeding into my adult life experiences. Why was it so obvious? Simple, these relatives were a large part of
my growing up, and thereby had an impact on me.
Who are these relatives that had an influence on my growing up? Primarily, they were part of the extended Price and Graham families. On the
Price side was Dad’s brother Uncle
Walter and his family and Dad’s sister, Aunt Gladys and her family.
Since Mom was an only child, there was Peaches Graham, a Cousin Twice Removed, his wife Louise Graham and their son Jack Graham, a Second Cousin Once
Removed. Louise’s and Jack’s influence
was covered fully in the essay A Baseball
Journey.
As I searched the depths
of my childhood memories it became clear that my first recollection of meeting
a relative occurred when we lived at 212 East Edinger Street in Santa Ana. The relatives were Peaches, Louise and Jack Graham.
This memory is vivid because I fell backward and hit my head on the
brick fireplace, cutting a gash in my scalp. Sitting on a small stool, I fell
backward attempting to emulate Jack leaning back on the rear legs of his
chair. This accident occurred sometime
between mid-1937 and mid-1939, but probably after my Third birthday. After this incident it is necessary to jump
forward in time to about 1940 for me to have any memories of relatives. In fact, the concept of Aunts, Uncles and
Cousins was not understood for years, even though you addressed them as Aunt or
Uncle, but you were on a first name basis with cousins. It was the societal convention of the times.
It is reasonable to ask
what is so unique about 1940 that reminds me of relatives. The first clue is that I have a clear,
positive image of what house we lived in at that time. We lived at 1461 Cypress Avenue in Santa Ana,
from April 1940 to August 1941. When we
lived in Santa Ana, my folks moved so often that we lived in eight different
houses from my birth until we moved to Belmont Shores, as documented in the essay Early
Years: 1935 to 1941. My only memory of those eight houses were the
ones on Edinger Street, where I bumped my head and Cypress Avenue, where I
started Kindergarten. So, what relatives
do I remember meeting while at the Cypress Avenue house?
I can remember three
sets of relatives that entered my world when we lived at the Cypress
house. Which set of relatives entered
first, I have not a clue, butt our 1940 trip to Garden City, Kansas, see the
essay The Early Years: Kansas 1940, may have been the first known
encounter with relatives. On this trip I
met Great-Grandmother Rosa Huckstadt,
several of Dad’s Aunts, Uncles, Cousins and In-laws. Our visit only lasted about two weeks, and it
was a whirlwind of faces, names and places.
There are distinct memories of some events; the outhouse, Dad’s shooting
jackrabbits, Jack the dog and harvesting rye grain on Great-Uncle Mearle’s farm.
The visit photos are my only memory of anyone. Writing the Kansas essay was the first time I
could connect names and faces, which assisted in understanding the family
genealogy. Since, this trip was the last
time I saw any of these relatives, they had no real measureable impact on my
growing up. When did the other relatives
enter my life?
Perhaps you remember
this photo of Uncle Walter, Aunt Dot, Cousin Carol, Mom and me from the essay
Early
Years: 1940 to 1944.
Bobby McClintock, Aunt Dot, Carol, Royal, Uncle
Walter, Mom
Carol and I placed this
photo in 1940, based on our size and similar photos taken about this time. Bobby McClintock is Carol’s cousin from Aunt
Dot’s family. While I sometimes may brag
about my memory, I have absolutely no memory of this snow outing. Why I do not remember my first experience
with the cold, white stuff is beyond comprehension. My guess is that Uncle Walter and family were
living in Riverside when our families took this excursion into the San
Bernardino Mountains. My remembered experiences
with Uncle Walter, Aunt Dot and Carol really began after they moved from
Riverside to Burbank, and will be covered later in the essay.
My first memories of Aunt Gladys and my Cousins Donna and Billy occurred
while living at the Cypress Avenue house in Santa Ana. Now you can ask, do I
remember an Uncle? Well maybe, but to properly answer this
question an explanation is needed that began over ten years prior to Aunt
Gladys’ entrance into my memory. In the
essay My Parents: Different Journeys to
California, I wrote that Dad returned to Kansas and brought Gladys to
California in either 1929 or early 1930. What is the basis for assuming this happened
in these years? First, Dad told me he
drove from Colorado to California in 1927.
Second, Dad’s Cousin Bertha Louise told me he returned to Kansas to
bring Gladys to California. Is it
possible that Dad brought Gladys in 1927?
I do not think so because of his story of picking up a hitchhiker and
telling his campfire story. I believe
Gladys would have been mentioned if she was also with him. Based on her birthdate in January 1911, it is
assumed she would have graduated from high school in May or June 1929 at the
age of 18. Knowing Dad’s view on
education, it is doubtful he would have returned to Kansas for Gladys until
after she graduated. Therefore, it was
probably the Summer of 1929 when Dad brought Gladys to California. The Summer of 1929 seems to be the most
logical, because Fall and Winter travel could have been difficult, since most
US roads in 1929 were dirt and not paved.
Inclement weather conditions would turn these dirt roads into muddy
thoroughfares.
There
is no information where Gladys lived upon reaching California. It seems logical that Dad took Gladys to
Orange to see her father, Robert A. Price,
our Granddad Price, but probably
did not stay with him. I was aware that Granddad Robert A. Price married Opal Claire Stoves and they had a
daughter Betty Lou Price born in
April 1932. It was a shock to discover
they were married in January 1924. Rummaging
through family notes this marriage date was discovered, and subsequently
confirmed in the 1930 Federal Census.
Based upon this information, there is no way Gladys lived with her Dad
and Step Mother Opal, especially since Granddad disinherited his Kansas
children (as told to me by Mom). This
marriage date is about two years after Granddad brought Walter to live with him
in California. Equally surprising is
that Betty Lou was not born until eight years after the marriage. However, Gladys found work and a place to
live in Orange County. This fact is
supported by the 1930 Federal Census in Santa Ana, California. In addition, this 1930 Federal Census shows
that Dad and Walter were boarders in Riverside.
Dad was listed as an auto mechanic doing auto repair, and Walter was an
electrician working for a power company (Southern Sierra Power Company). These census records confirm that all three
Price kids from Kansas were living in California, specifically in the Southern
California cities of Riverside and Santa Ana.
The 1930 Santa Ana
Census Records lists Gladys as a boarder in the household of James A. Bramley
and his wife Elizabeth M. They had four
children living in the house: William A. age 21, Warren J. age 17, Gertrude E.
age 11 and George W. age 2. This Census
Record listed James as a printer and William as a laborer. Gladys was listed as a housekeeper working in
a private home. An obvious question arises;
did she work for the Bramley’s? While
that answer is possible, it seems doubtful.
Census records indicate James’ job as a wage or salary worker. His son, William was a wage earner also. So it does not appear they would hire Gladys
for housekeeping. Plus, their house was
located at 706 Cypress Avenue, which was not an affluent area of Santa Ana in
1930. There is no record when Gladys
began boarding at the Bramley’s home before the census was taken in late April
1930. It is estimated she had not lived
with the Bramley’s for more than six months before the census worker visited
the house.
When I first discovered
this 1930 Census Record, I was stunned to find Gladys was a boarder in the Bramley’s
household. Why was I stunned beyond
belief? I had learned many years ago
that Dona’s and Billy’s family name was Bramley. An obvious conclusion was that Gladys marred
William. William was only two years
older than Gladys, so there is a distinct possibility an attraction developed
between them that resulted in a marriage.
Is it possible this conclusion is wrong? Finding marriage or divorce records would be
helpful, but none have been uncovered.
However, my latest research clearly establishes that Gladys and William
A. were married. I found a Gladys
Bramley and William A. Bramley listed in the 1932, 1933, 1934 and 1936 City
Directories. Un fortunately, there are
no city directories listed after 1936. An
obvious conclusion is that Gladys was smitten with William, and married
him. It must have been a whirlwind
courtship because Donna Louise Bramley was
born 13 September 1931, no more than two years after becoming a boarder. Then, about two years after Donna’s birth, William “Billy” Bunny Bramley was born
on 21 November 1933. This date is based
on an unverified family note, and no official birth record has been found.
I believe Aunt Gladys
divorced William A. Bramley sometime after 1936, but no divorce record has been
uncovered. There are a couple of reasons
for this conclusion. I have no
recollection of meeting, or seeing, Donna’s and Billy’s father. I must have been curious why Donna and Billy had
no father, and I ask my folks about him.
There is a very vague memory of being told he was a fireman, which to me
at age five was considered to be a great job.
There is also a faint memory of being told going to a firehouse was not
possible. Could it be that Aunt Gladys,
Donna and Billy entered my life prior to her second marriage? I really do not know, because my only memory
of them is after she re-married.
It is also interesting
to note that the 1936 City Directory listing indicated they lived at 2001
Orange Avenue in Santa Ana. This street
seemed familiar, and sure enough my folks lived at 2003 Orange Avenue from
January 1937 to July 1937. Did the
Prices and Bramleys live next door to each other? There is no way to know, but it certainly
raises interesting questions. Much to my
surprise and shock, the 1936 City Directory and the 1940 Federal Census appears
to debunk the fireman story for William A. Bramley. The City Directory lists him as a painter,
and the census record shows that William A. and his two brothers were still
living with their parents at their Cypress Avenue house. William’s job was listed as working as a
bartender and he was divorced. Further,
the census record shows that his education was only through the Eighth
Grade! It is difficult to believe that
someone with only an Eighth Grade education would be hired as a fireman, even
in the 1930s. Guess the real story will
remain a mystery. In any event, I never
met, or knew, my Uncle William A.
Bramley. My re-construction of Aunt Gladys’ life prior to entering mine is
the only reasonable one that seems probable, especially given the city
directories and census records. There
certainly are no family stories countering these records. So, given this background, it is possible to
return to describing my experience with Aunt Gladys, Donna and Billy.
Before proceeding there
is something of mote that should be mentioned.
In writing about my experiences with Gladys, I have used the proper
description of her as Aunt Gladys. However, for whatever reason, to me she was
always Auntie Gladys. I find calling her Auntie Gladys somewhat strange,
because I did not alter the names of Uncle Walter or Aunt Dot. I suspect calling her Auntie arose due to a
limited vocabulary, and speaking ability, thereby altering the word Aunt, which
is common in young children learning to speak.
Even though my first
memories of Aunt Gladys, Donna and Billy were when we lived at the Cypress
Avenue house, there are no distinct memories of them at this house. It is possible Aunt Gladys and my cousins visited
us before she re-married. The only
memories that come to mind are those after Aunt Gladys married Harold
Haskill. I admit that his first name may
be factious, but it is the best I can summon from memory. Here again, there is a faint memory of
calling him Uncle Harold. Plus, spelling his family name is based on
what I heard so many years ago, because there is no written proof of the
spelling. Perhaps because of this
uncertainty in his name, research has failed to discover any records of their
marriage. When Aunt Gladys married
Harold Haskill is not known, and no records have been uncovered when or where
the marriage took place. As described in
the essay Early Years: 1940 to 1944, the Haskill family also lived in
Santa Ana a few blocks due West of our Cypress Avenue house. While I do not remember them visiting our
house, I remember visiting their house a few times.
I do not know what Uncle
Harold did for a living, but at some point he was in the US Navy or Us Coast
Guard. This knowledge is based on the only
photo of him in a sailor’s uniform.
Harold Haskill
According to his uniform
insignia, he was a Petty Officer First Class.
This rank is equivalent to a Staff Sergeant in the US Army, or US
Marines. Since I never saw him in his
uniform, I do not know if he was still in the service at the time. Uncle Harold
also had been previously married and had a son that was about one or two years
younger than me. His name has long been
forgotten, but for this essay I’ll name him Harry. There is a photo of all four kids while in
Santa Ana in 1940.
Harry, Billy, Donna, Royal
This date is based on
the following photo of just Donna, Billy and me that I know was taken at the
Cypress house. My height relative to
Donna’s is about the same in both photos.
Thus, I believe both photos were taken about the same year. The background in the first photo may have
been taken in the Haskill’s backyard.
Royal, Donna and Billy
Besides remembering some
visits to the Haskill’s house, there is one other faint memory while they lived
in Santa Ana. I remember boarding a
small boat moored in Newport Harbor, and it was not a rowboat! How we reached this small boat I am not sure,
but it must have been by some sort of boat.
My memory is blank on how we got to his boat! There was a cabin below deck that was large
enough for everyone. To the best of my
recollection the reason we went to the boat was for lunch or a dinner, probably
lunch because there is no memory of anyone cooking. It also seems as though we did this excursion
a couple of times, but that thought is really vague. That Uncle Haskill owned a boat moored in
Newport Harbor raises the question about his job and financial status. How he earned a living is not known. Certainly, my folks never mentioned it to me,
and of course I never ask. There is the
possibility Uncle Harold was the fireman I heard about, but I never saw him in
any fireman’s gear.
Because Dad’s new job at
the Terminal Island Naval Air Station, we moved to Belmont Shore in Long Beach in
August 1941. It is unclear when Uncle
Harold, Aunt Gladys and my cousins also moved to Long Beach. I do not remember visiting them until we had
moved to North Long Beach in August 1942.
Their house was near the Virginia Country Club in the Bixby Knolls area
of Long Beach. I remember it was a
relatively short walk to the golf course, certainly no more than a couple of
blocks. I believe this area was rather
affluent at the time, so this fact also raises questions about Uncle Harold’s
financial status. To my knowledge Aunt
Gladys was not working while married to Uncle Harold. I remember several visits to their house, but
none to ours. Our house in North Long
Beach was rather small, while their house seemed much larger. It was at this house I remember Donna, Billy
and me playing a game we called “Mousey”, which drove the adults nuts! Donna had a play broom with a handle about
two or three feet in length. Billy and I
would be on all fours pretending to be mice.
Donna would chase us around the room saying, “Shoo, you mice!”, or “Get
out of my house!” Billy and I would
scramble around the room squealing like we thought mice would. To our folks it was pandemonium and way too
loud. At first they said go into the
bedroom, close the door and play your game in there. But we were still too noisy and we were told
to find something quiet to do. Whenever
we played Mousey, the game only lasted about five minutes and we were told to
stop. I thought it was our most fun game
of all. Now you may ask, did Harry play
Mousey with us? I never remember him
participating. Why I do not recall.
The best I can determine,
sometime in late 1942 to early 1943 they moved to another house closer to downtown
Long Beach. Basically, the house was
located on Long Beach’s major street, American Boulevard. The house was located just one vacant lot
north of 10th Street. Billy and I would sometimes play “war” in the
vacant lot. We visited them many times
while they lived here, which also to the best I can recollect was about 1945. In fact, it could be they moved at the
conclusion of World War II. There are
several memories and experiences when they lived here that should be told.
In the center of
American Avenue were streetcar tracks for the Pacific Electric Red Cars. Pacific Electric was a mass transit system
with about 1,100 miles of tracks throughout Southern California. Actually, there were more tracks than in New
York City at the time. Red Cars were
very popular during the war due to gas rationing. However, Californians preferred their cars
and with the advent of freeways, Pacific Electric began to decline and was eventually
phased out. The last Red Car operated in
1961. This photo shows a typical Red Car
seen on American Boulevard.
Pacific Electric Red Car, Circa 19443
The photo shows two Red
Cars connected together, but most of the time only a single car passed their
house. I have a distinct memory of
Grandmother Graham and I riding a Red Car from Santa Ana to Los Angles to
shop. There is a faint memory of Aunt
Gladys, Donna, Billy and me catching the Red Car near their house and also
going to Los Angeles to shop. I believe
those were the only times that the Red Cars were used by me. My other experiences remembered while they
live here involved games we played, Easter Egg hunts, movies and a very
traumatic event.
Donna, Billy and I
continued to play Mousey, but our parents found a board game for us to play, to
keep us quiet. The game was Monopoly! Donna was always the banker, while Billy and
I usually fought over which token we wanted.
We both always wanted either the race car or airplane, with Billy
usually getting the race car. Needless
to say, Monopoly was a long game that we never finished. One or all of us would get bored and the game
became chaos. I am not sure we ever
really understood the object of the game, we just liked playing with the money. There was one Easter Egg Hunt I remember that
had an unfortunate end.
In 1943 or 1944, Donna,
Billy, Harry and I helped Aunt Gladys and Mom color about two dozen eggs for
Easter at the American Boulevard house.
The Easter Egg Hunt began when Aunt Gladys and Mom went into the
backyard and hid these eggs. The four of
us began our hunt with the goal to see who could find the most eggs. Although remembering who found the most eggs
has long faded from memory, we thought it was great fun. So, one of us had the bright idea to have
another egg hunt. Rather than the adults
hiding the eggs, we decided to take turns hiding the eggs and the remaining
three doing the hunting. After several
hunts one of us noticed the eggs were cracked.
We did not have any idea why they were cracked, but noticed the eggs
were in worse shape when Harry hid the eggs.
Donna, Billy and I decided to “cheat” and watch Harry hide the
eggs. Much to our horror, it became
crystal clear why the eggs were being cracked.
Harry’s technique for hiding the eggs was to throw them at a hiding
place! After we “hunted” Harry’s eggs,
we decided to end our egg hunting game.
After all the eggs would not have survived another “hiding” by Harry. Looking back on this incidence leads me to
believe we did not consider Harry as part of our group. Plus, I do not remember playing with him very
often. Besides playing various games at
the house Donna, Billy and I went to several movies.
There was a movie
theatre within walking distance from Aunt Gladys’ house. This theatre was located on Atlantic Avenue
at 10th Street, only about one block east of American Boulevard. Usually the three of us would walk to the
theatre on Saturday afternoons. There
are several movies I remember seeing at this theatre. The movies we saw were in the Fall of 1943
through the summer of 1944. There were
usually two movies, a newsreel and a cartoon shown during these years. One of the movies was the main feature and the
second one would be a “B” movie. The
newsreel was short films of news of the day, usually about the war. Of course, the cartoon was our favorite. Cartoons were usually a Disney character or
one of the Looney Tunes characters.
Movies I remember seeing at this theatre were Lassie Come Home, Guadalcanal Diary, Sahara, Fighting Seabees and Adventures of Mark Twain. Lassie
Come Home was memorable because it was in color and the star was a
Collie. Movies in color were rare in
these years, and all the other listed moves were the standard of the day; black
and white. Guadalcanal Diary and Sahara
were very memorable war films of the day.
As mentioned in an earlier essay, Guadalcanal
Diary was about US Marines fighting the Japanese and my favorite teacher in
Sixth Grade was a US Marine that fought on the island. Sahara
was Humphrey Bogart fighting Rommel’s Afrika Corps in the Sahara Desert. Billy and I played Sahara in the vacant lot
after seeing this movie. Adventures of Mark Twain was memorable
for two events shown in the movie; his birth and death. Samuel Clements (Mark Twain) was born in 1845
when Haley’s Comet passed by earth in its orbit, and was visible to the naked
eye. His death occurred 75 years later
in 1910, when Haley’s Comet returned to be visible again. I was impressed by Haley’s Comet returning
every 75 years, and determined I would be 50 years old when it returned
again. Unfortunately, in 1985 there was
too much light pollution to provide a clear view of the comet. The final memory of being at Aunt Gladys’
house occurred at Christmas 1944.
I was nine years old and
had received my first pocket knife from “Santa”. It was a small knife with only one blade. That blade was not over an inch and a half in
length. We were at Aunt Gladys’ for
dinner and to exchange presents. While
Aunt Gladys and Mom were in the kitchen fixing dinner, I was trying to open a
present. The present used Scotch tape to
secure the wrapping. After failing to
undo the tape, I decided to use my knife to undo the tape. Well, using my knife was not a good idea! The knife slipped and I plunged the blade
into my left wrist about, two inches from the heel of my hand. Surprisingly, there was no great pain. Miraculously, the blade missed tendons,
arteries, veins and hit no bones. Who
removed he knife from my wrist, Mom, Dad, or me, I do not remember. Somehow I was taken, or walked, into the
kitchen. The blood was washed away and
pressure applied to stop the bleeding.
Aunt Gladys retrieved a Band-Aid to cover the wound. Besides the miracle of the blade missing
everything, I thought it was also a miracle I did not cry or shed nary a
tear. How I remained so calm is a hard
to comprehend, even to this day. The
scar from this accident still exists on my wrist’s inner side. This accident was a difficult way to learn
knifes can be dangerous. Despite this collection of memories that occurred at
Aunt Gladys’ houses, I have no memory of them visiting us during the war. However, here is a photo of Donna holding a
two year old Berta at the Sebren house, indicating they probably did visit us
during the war.
Roberta and Donna, Circa 1945
Based on Berta’s age,
the photo would have been taken sometime in 1945. Thus, this photo supports my thought that sometime
in 1945 the Haskills moved to the San
Diego area. Whether it was before or after
World War II was over, I am not sure.
The cause for the move is unclear, but there is a vague impression that
Uncle Harold moved for business. or financial, reasons. Although I remember riding with my folks to
San Diego, I do not remember visiting them after they moved. What is remembered is that Aunt Gladys
divorced Harold Haskill, and was living in National City, a suburb of San
Diego. It is unknown what year we first
traveled to see Aunt Gladys and our cousins, but it must have been either 1946
or 1947. Her first house in National
City was large single family residence, and was located on Highland Avenue, a
major street to the east of downtown. Driving
from the Sebren house to Aunt Gladys’ was a real journey in those days, it took
at least four hours once we left our house.
We drove US Highway 1,
which went through all the coastal towns from Seal Beach to San Diego. The most exciting part of the drive was when
we drove through Camp Pendleton, because there was always the chance to see Marine
tanks maneuvering through the hills. Even
though the trip took over four hours, one way, I do not remember any overnight
visits. What is remembered is that my
folks let me stay at Aunt Gladys’ place for at least a week during the
summer. Which year was my first stay in
National City? What year is not clear, but
I remember on my first visit Billy had either been in the Eighth Grade, or he had
been promoted to the Eighth Grade. Since
his birthdate was late November 1933, it is probable he would have started
school in 1938. Given Billy started
school in 1938, he would have finished the Eighth Grade in June 1947. If he started school in 1939, he would have
been entering Eighth Grade in September 1947.
In either case, my first visit had to be in the summer of 1947.
It seems that after this
1947 summer stay at Aunt Gladys’, my summer visit became an annual event. How many summers I spent in National City is
also somewhat of a blur. Based on some
specific remembered events, I believe it was each summer from 1947 through
1950. These visits halted because by
1950 my summers at home were filled playing baseball, primarily with the
Lakewood American Legion team. Yes, I
began playing American Legion baseball in 1950, but I know Billy and I saw a
movie that was not released until July 1950.
Thus, it seems reasonable that my 1950 visit occurred after the baseball
season was completed. While certain
specific activities, or events can be recounted, in which year they occurred is
also a blur.
Perhaps things are a
blur because Aunt Gladys worked during the day, which meant Donna, Billy and I
were left to our own devices. By 1947 we were too old to play Mousey anymore,
which meant new activities had to be experienced. It is possible we played card games, but the
usual day’s activities took place outdoors.
Usually, Billy would show me his favorite places and activities, while
Donna was visiting with some of her friends.
After all she was probably a high school sophomore on this first visit,
and did not want to be involved with dumb boy things. There were even some nights where Billy and I
roamed the streets until around nine o’clock, which was Aunt Gladys’ curfew. Our greatest crime on these nights out was
ringing doorbells and running to hide.
We stopped after about three or four doorbells, because Billy was afraid
the people would call the police. I
thought the visits were great because there was little or no adult
supervision. Aunt Gladys trusted us and
knew we would not cause any real problems in whatever activities we undertook. It just seemed like a perfect way to spend
some of the summer away from my folks.
Aunt Gladys’ rules just did not seem as stringent as Mom’s during the
day, or Dad’s in the evening. However,
there was one night adventure that we all enjoyed, even Aunt Gladys.
Whether it was planned,
or just a coincidence, my 1948 visit coincided with the San Diego Padres
playing a home stand. You may remember, Jack Graham (Second Cousin, Once
Removed) was playing for the Padres in 1948 and was hitting home runs at a
record pace. I wanted to see him play at
Lane Field while staying with Aunt Gladys.
Either I talked Aunt Gladys into attend a game, or Jack knew I was in town
and arranged for tickets. I almost
believe he was aware I was in town, but I am not sure. This game had to be early in my summer
vacation because it was before July 23 when Jack was beaned while playing the
Los Angeles Angels at Wrigley Field. Besides
attending the game, we also had the good fortune that this night was Fan
Night. Fan Night allowed us to be on the
field prior to the game, to meet and photo graph the players. We met Jack and one of Aunt Gladys’ photos of
Jack is in the essay A Baseball Journey. It is unclear if Jack had ever met Aunt
Gladys, Donna and Billy before this on-field encounter. I do not believe Jack hit a home run that
night, and I certainly do not remember if the Padres won or lost. It was a memorable evening for me, and
hopefully for everyone else.
Doorbell ringing and
seeing Jack at the Padres’ game were the memorable highlights of my first two
summers staying with Aunt Gladys. Most
of the activities were normal, everyday sorts of things young teenage boys do
during an unscripted summer day. However,
there was one activity that was a regular event each summer. Donna, Billy and I would board a city bus and
ride into San Diego’s famous Balboa Park.
Balboa Park has many attractions, but the one we visited was the world
famous San Diego Zoo. The zoo trip was
an all day event from morning until late afternoon before we would catch a bus
back to the house. We went to movies in National City, but the theatre was
within walking distance. After my visit
in the summer of 1948, Aunt Gladys moved to a new house. It is a best guess that my first visit to
this new house was in the summer of 1949.
The new house was
located a couple of houses north of Eighth Street. The new house was only a few blocks from the
Highland Avenue house, so the neighborhood and area was familiar. In fact, I do not believe Donna or Billy had
to change schools. This new house seemed
smaller, but it had three bedrooms. It
could be the rooms were smaller than the first house, which gave it a smaller
appearance. Billy and I slept in the
front bedroom, while Donna occupied the back bedroom. Aunt Gladys’s bedroom was between the other
two bedrooms. There was a garage on the right side of the property and it was
set behind the house. There are some
photos of Aunt Gladys, Donna and Billy taken at this house, but determining
when they were taken is a real guess.
These photos also include Berta and myself. Attempting to determine our age in the photos
is a real challenge. To me it is
difficult to know your own age just by looking at old photos, especially when
there is not a specific remembered event connected to the photo. After all, these photos were taken over 60
years ago. So, I ask Berta and Cousin Carol
for their opinions about our ages in various photos. After receiving their opinions on these
photos, I reviewed several cousin photos from the late 40s and early 50s,
looking at heights, hair styles, shoes, etc., in an attempt to estimate
everyone’s age. As a result of this
review, an approximate age can be estimated to assist in establishing when the
photo was taken. This approach is
certainly subjective, but I challenge you to look at your own childhood photos
and positively determine how old you were at the time. Time dated photos are not allowed. Then add a quarter or half a century to your
memory and see how well you are at estimating your age.
It seems unusual that
despite all the visits between the Price
and Bramley Cousins there were so
few photos of us all together. The only
previous photos of Donna and Billy were taken about 1940 in Santa Ana at both
the Cypress house, and probably at the Haskill
house. The first photo showing all the Price and Bramley Cousins was
taken during the summer of 1949. This
photo was taken with us sitting on the front porch of Aunt Gladys’ second
house.
Royal, Roberta, Donna and Billy, Circa 1949
Depending upon when
during the summer the photo was taken, I am either 13 or 14 years old. On this basis, Berta would be six years old,
Donna 18 and Billy 15. There are three reasons
for placing this photo in the summer of 1949.
First, I have a regular haircut, while in 1950 I began sporting a
flattop hair style as a high school sophomore.
Second, a photo of me at age 12 or 13, Roberta and our other Price Cousins, Carol and Dave.
Finally, Berta estimated her age as five, but a year was added for her
since she did not attend the Padres baseball game in 1948. Billy was actually taller than me, but the
photo does not have that appearance. It
appears Billy is relaxed, while I seem to be overly stiff and straight. Plus, my expression is lousy! For some reason, my facial expressions are
sour or non-smiling. Guess I did not
like posing.
This photo also brought
back a faint memory that Berta also stayed with Aunt Gladys, because I remember
Berta staying with Donna in the back bedroom.
Whether it was 1949 or 1950 I am not sure. However, at some point Berta also began
spending a week at Aunt Gladys’ also.
While my visits came to an end after 1950, due to playing baseball,
Berta continued her visits for a time.
In fact, Berta remembers riding Greyhound buses to National City for her
visits. I have no memory of riding Greyhound
buses to National City. If I did ride
them, that memory has been swallowed by a black hole. There was another member of Aunt Gladys’
family that has not been mentioned so far.
This next photo sows Berta sitting on the back porch with Smokey, Aunt
Gladys’ cocker spaniel. Seeing Smokey
brings a funny story to mind.
Roberta and Smokey, Circa 1949
Dad had bought some
items from a joke shop in Long Beach.
Dad loved to play practical jokes on family, friends and
colleagues. One of these items was a
realistic replica of dog poop. When our
folks took us for our summer stay at Aunt Gladys’, he brought this “poop”
along. While Aunt Gladys’ was in the
kitchen we placed the “poop on the living room floor. We alerted her that something had happened in
the living room that she should come see.
When Aunt Gladys saw the “poop” she said, “Oh, Smokey! He has never done that before.” She returned to the kitchen and returned with
a spatula and napkin to clean up the mess.
Of course that is when the real nature of the “poop” was discovered. At this discovery, she decided to extend the
joke. Billy was not home and he had a
brand new pair of Levi’s on his bed. She
suggested Billy would have a fit if he found the “poop” on his new jeans. When Billy came home and found the “poop” on
his new Levi’s, we heard a “Smokey!” from his bedroom along with some choice words
about Smokey’s longevity. Once Billy discovered
the real nature of the “poop”, everyone had a good laugh. The only one that did not share the laughter
was Smokey; he just did not understand that he was the object of the joke. Smokey was not the only new member of the
family, Aunt Gladys had re-married again!
Exactly when she
re-married is not known, and searching marriage records to date has been
fruitless. My only memory is that the
new husband appeared at this second house.
Whether they were married when I arrived for my 1949 or 1950 visit, I do
not know. However, my best recollection
is that I did not meet my new Uncle Roy
Gardner until the 1950 summer. Uncle Roy was in the US Navy as shown
in this photo.
Roy Gardner, Circa 1950
Based on the insignia on
his arm, I believe he was a Chief Petty Officer. He must have made the US Navy a career from
all the “hash marks” on his sleeve. If
the count is correct, there are seven “hashes”, at four years per “hash”, which
represents 28 years. My memories of
Uncle Roy are certainly sketchy, and how often I saw him is questionable. It seems he was present only one summer. However, there were some conversations with
him that are remembered. One of the
first things he told me was related to his name. Plus, I believe he felt some connection with
me due to the similarities of our names.
He told me that he was not, nor related to, Roy G.
Gardner, America's most infamous prison escapee and the most celebrated outlaw
and escaped convict during the Roaring Twenties. It seems having
the same name as this outlaw was something he was proud about, although I’m not
sure why. This conclusion was reached
because he mentioned it more than once, as though to stress he was not the
outlaw. Our other conversations involved
his most recent Navy assignment.
Uncle Roy’s most recent
Navy assignment was as a member of a US Navy Antarctic Expedition. My recollection is that he had just returned
from the expedition, and that it was one conducted by Admiral Byrd. Until I began researching these expeditions that
I uncovered the expedition was conducted earlier, probably before he married
Aunt Gladys. Admiral Byrd’s fourth expedition
to the Antarctic continent was Operation Highjump in 1946. The next Navy Antarctic Expedition was
Operation Windmill led by Commander Gerald Ketchum in 1947-1948. Operation Windmill was a follow-up to the
1946 Admiral Byrd expedition. After
discovering the dates for these Navy expeditions, I have to assume Uncle Roy may
have been on both expeditions, but both assignments were completed before I met
him. I have a memory of an envelope with
a polar bear on the front with the name of the expedition, but I cannot find it
anywhere. It should be noted there are
no polar bears in the Antarctic. There
was one remembered conversation that was really a geography lesson. He asked me, “Where on earth are you the
greatest distance from land in any direction?”
His answer was in the Pacific Ocean half way between Hawaii and San
Diego. No idea if this answer is correct
or not. Since Uncle Roy was in the Navy,
it was accepted as true. Uncle Roy must
have been going to the Naval base daily, because I do not remember him being
around during the day. As a consequence,
Billy and I had some interesting adventures this summer of 1950.
Remembering a specific
movie Billy and I saw has helped me pinpoint my 1950 National City visit. Billy and I saw Winchester ’73, which was
released in July 1950. I had seen the
movie at home, but Billy had not seen it.
Jimmy Stewart was the star and it was a great Cowboys and Indians, Bad
Guy and firearm movie. What more could
any young boy want in an action-adventure movie? Besides this movie, Billy took me to Balboa
Stadium one night to watch motorcycle races.
While I was no stranger to car racing, I had never seen motorcycle
racing before. We sat on a grassy hill
at one end of the dirt track, which made it difficult to follow any racer all
the way around the track. Motorcycle
racing was really different than car racing because the rider had to put a foot
on the ground going around the corners.
Even given this difference, motorcycle racing did not impress me. This night of racing was my first and last
motorcycle race. Billy was becoming
interested in car racing and he talked of attending drag car races near San
Diego. His interest in car racing was
peaked when he became acquainted with a midget car race driver.
Billy became acquainted
with Bill Vukovich, a well known midget car race driver. Billy and some of his friends would visit the
garage where Vukovich kept his midget.
Billy talked about polishing the car, as well as talking with the race
driver. Vukovich moved from midget
racing to Indy car racing in the early 1950s.
In fact, Vukovich won the 1953 and 1954 Indianapolis 500. Vukovich was killed in the 1955 Indy 500
while leading the race. Dad and I were
listening to this race and both felt sad at his death, because there was a
connection to him through Billy.
Actually, I felt the same sadness I had experienced when Dad’s friend
Rex Mays was killed racing Indy style cars, as explained in the essay Formative
Years: 1950 to 1953. What really
topped off this summer was the motorized wheels that Billy had purchased.
Billy had bought a
Cushman motor scooter. These scoters
were popular in the years following World War II. A typical Cushman motor scooter of the time
is shown in the following pho.
Cushman Motor Scooter, Circa 1952
His scooter did not
appear as custom as in the photo.
Billy’s Cushman was dark blue and the seat was black in color. Your speed was controlled by twisting the
right grip. The brake was another pedal
on the right side. The pedal on the left
was a clutch to shift gears. There were
only two forward gears, and the gear shift was a rod that extended from the
slot just under the seat. This gear
shift is visible, but extremely difficult to see. Billy took me for several rides on the scooter,
which created a lust in me to own one also.
As a result, I began to develop a heart-rending story as to why I
“needed” a Cushman.
As all kids know, sell
your idea to your Mom first and you are over half way to obtaining your
desire. I knew Mom was coming at the end
of my visit and there would be one day before Dad arrived. My plan involved taking Mom for a ride to
convince her how great a Cushman would be to own. So, I had to talk Billy into letting me use
the scooter solo. Billy understood what
I was attempting and was willing to indulge me in this scheme. Well, right out of the gate there was a
problem; I could not shift from low to high gear. After several attempts, Billy decided I
should gun the engine, slip the clutch and start in high gear. After a few tries, this technique worked and
I rode a couple of practice runs up the street and back. Now I was ready for Mom.
Since Mom was arriving a
day before Dad, I suspect she rode a Greyhound bus, since we did not own two
cars. If you are saying, “He was not 16
years old and could not get a driver’s license, so how could he drive a
Cushman.” To the best of my
recollection, in 1950s California you did not require a driver’s license to use
a Cushman on the roads. This fact was
also at the heart of my “needy” story.
After talking Mom into going for a ride with me, and since Mom was game
to try anything I figured a Cushman was in my future. As we started up the street I began
explaining how a Cushman was ideal for delivering papers. As we turned around and head back to the
house there was a big hiccup in my plans.
I was busy extolling the Cushman’s virtues as we approached a cross
street. A car appeared on our right that
surprised me. I hit the brake that threw
us forward, but I did not lose control. Although the car stopped this incident
just scared Mom and me. Well, despite
all the positives for a Cushman, that one near mishap doomed my plan. I do not remember any further discussion
about owning a Cushman motor scooter. I
was to learn later the dangers of riding motor scooters, and will be explained
later in this essay. Plus, Dad did not
favor motorcycles or scooters due to his own experiences. The Cushman adventure is my last memory of
visiting Aunt Gladys during the summer.
However, as previously mentioned Berta continued these summer visits for
some time.
Berta told me a story
about one of her visits to Aunt Gladys’ that was very traumatic for her at the
time. Donna took her to a movie that
scared Berta to death. The movie was King
Kong, which scared her out of her wits.
It is not hard to imagine a nine year old being scared, seeing the movie
on a large theatre screen. I originally
saw it on TV, which on a “boob tube” it does not have such an overpowering
effect as it would in a theatre. The
original King Kong movie was released in 1933. This original movie was re-released in 1938,
1942, 1948, 1952 and 1956. There are some photos taken at Aunt Gladys’ that
Berta estimates her age as eight or nine.
Hence, I believe Berta probably saw the movie in 1952. One of these photos was also taken on the back
porch with Smokey, Mom and Donna.
Roberta, Smokey, Mom and Donna, Circa 1952
One of the other photos
is the only one of Aunt Gladys as I remember her. I believe his photo was taken on the same
visit as the one above, because Berta is wearing the same dress. Uncle Roy is also in this photo wearing
civilian clothes, which may mean he had retired from the Navy, but that is only
a guess. How much longer Uncle Roy
remained and Uncle, I am not sure. All I
know for sure is that they divorced at some point, because I have not been able
to find any records. It is estimated
that the divorce occurred within a year or two of this photo.
Uncle Roy, Aunt Gladys, Roberta and Dad, Circa
1952
In addition to these
visits to the San Diego area, there are memories of Aunt Gladys, Donna and
Billy visiting at the Sebren house.
Dates for these visits are buried so deep in memory, they cannot be
retrieved. Even the duration of their
visits are not recoverable, their stays could haven a week or more, or only a
weekend. The only memories that bubble
to the surface involve one at Christmas, and another time when Billy and I
slept in “The Little House”. The
Christmas memory is really weird; we had been listening to constant Christmas
music on the radio for the week before Christmas. Then the day after Christmas, radio
programming returned to regular music. I
did not understand this change, because it was still Christmas vacation from
school. Billy commented that “Jingle
Bells” was still being played, but I countered that “Jingle Bells” was not a
Christmas song or carol. I still believe
that to be true, “Jingle Bells” is a seasonal song usually heard during the
Christmas time. To understand sleeping
in “The Little House” requires some background.
This structure did not exist when we moved into the Sebren house in
1944, and it arrived years later. Its
existence is a story in and of itself.
There was a child’s
playhouse in our next door neighbor’s backyard to our South. This playhouse was about eight feet square,
walls about seven feet high with a gabbled roof. The peak of the roof was probably at least ten
feet, with no interior ceiling. Each
wall had a window and there was a door on at the front of the playhouse. I believe our neighbor built the house and it
existed there when we moved into the Sebren house. Around 1947 or 1948 the Cassidy family became
our neighbors when the original neighbor sold the property. When they moved in the Cassidy family
included Dean, Mildred and daughter Carolyn.
A son Eddie was born after they moved in. Carolyn was about two years younger than
Berta, and they became good friends and playmates. For some unknown reason, Dean considered the
playhouse dangerous and wanted to get rid of it. Whatever the reason, Dad agreed to take the
playhouse. Dad worked out an ingenious
way to get the playhouse into our backyard without dismantling it. All it took was some grunting and sweating.
Dad’s method for moving
the playhouse was simple; place the house on pipes and roll it to our property. Dad used oil well pipe that Homer Cherry
provided from his company. Additional
pipe was placed in front of the house as it was pushed toward our
property. Eventually the first pipe was
uncovered by the house and this pipet was taken back to the front edge of the
house as the house moved closer to its resting place in our yard. Since the property line fence was a simple
mesh wire, it was freed from the end post and swung aside. With Dad, Homer and Dean pushing the
playhouse was finally resting on our property.
We re-named the playhouse “The Little House” and it served many
purposes. It was used as a storage shed
for some of Dad’s things, our toys, as well as a place to play. Today the stuff stored in The Little House
would probably be called junk, Dad even setup a drafting board for
himself. I could find only one photo
that contained “The Little House”. The
photo only contains a portion of the house, but the door and part of a window
are visible behind Pepper and Sandy.
“The Little House” became an integral part of our life over the years
and it served us well.
Pepper, Sandy and Royal, Circa 1951
As I entered the High
School years, contact with Aunt Gladys, Donna and Billy began to fade. The only
time we saw Aunt Gladys and our cousins was when they visited us at the Sebren
house. It is my recollection, I was attending high school the time Billy and I
slept in “The Little House” during one of their visits. Seeing them almost became non-existent once I
entered college and married Beverly. I
believe within a year or two after Beverly and I married, Aunt Gladys married
her fourth husband, whom we knew only as Jack
Jackson. I place their marriage after 1955 because
there is no memory of seeing Uncle Jack
while I was still living at home with my folks.
To date, their marriage records have not been discovered. I remember Beverly and I meeting Uncle Jack
with Aunt Gladys while they were visiting my folks. Reviewing some family notes, I discovered
some family genealogy information for Uncle Jack. His full name was Ernest “Jack” N. Jackson, and was born in Nebraska on 16 January
1901. Thus, he was ten years older than
Aunt Gladys. Uncle Jack and Aunt Gladys
had a house located in an area East of National City. Their house was located in a rural area, that
I remember Dad showing some photos of the views from the house. These views seemed to show the area was
either semi-desert, or maybe in fact desert.
I remember Mom, Dad and
Berta used to visit them once in a while, but Beverly and I never made the trip
to visit them. In fact, Beverly and I
saw them several times in the late 1950s into the 1960s. The primary reason for their visiting my
folks was when Uncle Jack was seeking medical treatments at the Navy Hospital in
Long Beach. When Uncle Jack went to the
hospital, Aunt Gladys stayed with my folks.
Uncle Jack had been in the Navy, hence his seeking treatment at the Navy
Hospital. This hospital was located at
the corner of Bellflower Boulevard and Seventh Street, but no longer exists. I believe there is a Veterans facility there
now. Best I can remember is that the
duration of Uncle Jack’s hospital visit varied from a couple of days to perhaps
a week. Depending on the length of their
visit, Beverly and I did not always visit to see them before they returned
home. Because we did not see them on
each of their visits, it was during this time I began to lose contact with Aunt
Gladys and Uncle Jack. I do not believe
Donna or Billy accompanied them on these visits, at least not that is remembered.
It was during this time that Donna and
Billy were also marrying, which meant they were also beginning a new life. As a
consequence, contact with them was also lost.
Obtaining a college education, marriage, the start of our own family and
buying our own home just seemed to consume all our time. Because of the contact my folks maintained
with Uncle Jack and Aunt Gladys, along with information from Berta, I have been
able to discover some information on Billy and Donna.
Beverly and I saw Billy
and his wife at the Sebren house on one occasion. Billy introduced his wife Nita. Research has uncovered they were married 17
October 1959 in Clark County, Nevada (probably Las Vegas). Nita’s full name was Juanita P. Bramley, nee Paul.
It is assumed they met in the San Diego area. The time Beverly and I met Billy and Nita was
prior to their moving to Buena Park.
Berta also remembers them moving there, and exchanged Christmas cards a
few times. But eventually, she did not
receive any responses and stopped sending cards. Billy’s interest in car racing resulted in
his racing midgets. Mom told me that
Billy really appreciated Dad coming to watch him race. I remember Dad talking about Billy racing,
but I thought it was tin the San Diego area.
It seems Billy was racing in the Gardena area, probably at the old
Carrel Speedway, or perhaps after it was changed to the Ascot Speedway. Dad took a photo of a midget racer on a
trailer, which I suspect was the car Billy drove.
Billy’s Midget Racer, Circa 1960s
Donna married Clifford
E. Brown in Alameda, California on 14 January 1957. Donna was 25 at the time and Clifford was 36. Alameda is an island city in the East San
Francisco Bay, just South of Oakland.
The island is separated from the mainland by a narrow channel. Berta, with Dad and Mom visited Donna and
Aunt Gladys somewhere in the Greater Los Angeles area sometime in the early
1960s. Donna had a young boy about one
or two years old. She did not remember
the boy’s name or age, just that he was not very old. Searching Ancestry records has uncovered a
William D. Brown born on 14 April 1960 in Alameda, California. The mother’s maiden name was Bramley, so it
is assumed the mother is Donna. Berta
was under the impression Donna had divorced, but no divorce records have been
found. Based on some information about
Uncle Jack, I believe that Aunt Gladys was visiting Donna while Uncle Jack was
undergoing treatment at the Naval Hospital.
Discovering Uncle Jack’s
full name from the newly discovered family genealogic information also provided
information on his death. To confirm
this information an Ancestry search was conducted. A California Death record was found that
agreed with the family information.
Uncle Jack passed away on 15 May 1968 at the Naval Hospital in Long
Beach. According to the family records,
Uncle Jack received full military honors.
Nothing has been uncovered as to his burial site. I
believe this marriage for Aunt Gladys was her longest and happiest. I do not know if Aunt Gladys continued living
alone after Uncle Jack’s passing, but I’m sure Dad and Mom kept in touch with
her in some manner. This guess is based
on the fact that Aunt Gladys, Donna and Billy made a hospital visit to see Dad
about a week before he passed away. It
was after Dad’s passing that contact was lost with Aunt Gladys, Donna and
Billy, at least for me.
Berta, and perhaps Mom,
continued to exchange Christmas cards for a while. Berta indicated that Aunt Gladys began living
with Donna in the National City area. It
seems Donna returned to National City after her divorce. The card exchange continued for a few years,
but eventually Berta received nothing from National City. While doing research on Ancestry for
information on Aunt Gladys, Donna and Billy, I discovered a Social Security
Death Notice for Aunt Gladys. According
to this notice Aunt Gladys passed away 13 December 2007 in Spring Valley, San
Diego County, California. Aunt Gladys
was 96 years old at the time of her passing.
To my knowledge, Donna and Billy are still living somewhere in
California. To date nothing has been
discovered concerning them. All three of
them contributed to my growing up, each in their own way.
Aunt Gladys, I believe,
had the greatest influence on my growing up.
Perhaps the major reason for her impact was due to spending lots of time
with her. When we lived in Santa Ana and
Long Beach our families visited each other on a constant basis. After they moved to National City, our
visiting did subside, but did not end. That
is because Berta and I visited them during the summer for week long
visits. Besides our visits to National
City, Aunt Gladys, Donna and Billy visited us many times and stayed for several
days at our house for each visit. Our
visits provided me the opportunity to know Aunt Gladys on a very personal
basis. From my perspective, she was
always easy going and light hearted. I remember
her as a happy and easy to talk to on any subject. She had a great sense of humor, as evident in
the fake “poop” story. One time while
they were visiting us, she commented that Geritol really made her feel good. I told her, “Well, you should because Geritol
is 25% alcohol!” She replied, “Are you
kidding?’ I replied, “No.” At that we both laughed about her using the
product. Despite her outward demeanor
during our visits, perhaps those were her happiest moments. To have three broken marriages before finding
the right man must have been very disheartening and sad. From my perspective, her multiple marriages
were a search for the father she did not have.
Grandfather Robert Alfred Price left his three children in Kansas and
headed to California. Aunt Gladys was
just eleven years old when he left them to be raised by Great-Grandmother
Huckstadt and other Aunts and Uncles.
Then he disinherited his children after re-marrying. Any child would be affected by such treatment
by a father, and your only parent.
Whatever affect her early childhood had on her later life is not really
known, but her multiple marriages provided a unique situation for Berta and me.
Due to Aunt Gladys’
multiple marriages, while growing up that with each marriage I had a new
uncle. As it turned out, I only knew
three of these men and Berta only knew two of them. Writing this essay, it occurred to me that
only one of her husbands was my uncle, William
A Bramley. Her other husbands were,
in a sense, Step-Uncles. However,
Ancestry classifies these last three men as the Husband of Aunt Gladys. I
rather prefer Step-Uncle because it seems more descriptive. In reality, I never knew my Uncle William A.
Bramley, but knew Step0-Unle Harold,
Step-Uncle Roy and Step-Uncle Jack, while Berta knew Step-Uncle Roy and Step-Uncle Jack.
In retrospect, I do not believe any of them had an impact on my growing
up because they were in my life for such a short time. Uncle
Harold (#2) was in my life the longest, about five years, but I really do
not remember how we interacted. I have
no negative memories about any of them, while Berta had an uncomfortable experience
with Step-Uncle Roy when he was drunk.
It seems he was teasing Smokey, which seemed rather cruel and caused an
argument with Aunt Gladys. Beta and I
were fortunate to have only one Mom and Dad, while Donna and Billy had to
contend with three Step-Dads. How having
multiple Step-Dads affected their lives I am unaware. I have no memory of either of them
complaining about Step-Dads. It is
entirely possible there are no complaint memories because we three enjoyed each
other and had fun being together.
During the years in
Santa Ana and Long Beach, Donna was like an older sister to me. She was four years older, which at the time I
just knew she was older. Donna was very
tall compared to Billy and me. I suspect
Donna gained her size from her father. I
would estimate her final height was between five foot eight to six feet. Her height overwhelmed me, which just added
to the feeling she was so much older.
Donna joined in our playing games of all kinds, but she did not play the
boy games that Billy and I dreamed up.
Once they moved to National City, Donna was well into her teenage years,
which resulted in us growing apart somewhat.
We had different interests and activities. There are several photos of Donna and Berta
together, from the time Berta was about two until she was about nine or
ten. Donna treated Berta like the sister
she did not have. I believe there was a
special relationship between Donna and Berta.
I believe Donna and Billy were close also.
Billy was the big
brother I always wanted. I looked up to
him and thought whatever he said was the absolute truth. Yes, I was gullible! Billy was a free spirit, probably because he
had no father influence. Billy pushed
the envelope, doing things I thought outrageous and would not do on my
own. From my perspective, Billy could do
no wrong. Whatever he wanted to do, I
followed. After they moved to National
City, Billy was also growing into the teenage years and his interests were
becoming different than mine. He was
entering high school and was interested in girls and racing, while my passion
was baseball. Billy was growing up
faster than I was. He earned money and
had a Cushman scooter, while I did not even have a Learner’s Permit yet. It just seemed he was growing up faster than
me, and I could not keep up. I guess
that is what big brothers do.
Obviously, Aunt Gladys,
Donna and Billy were involved and had an impact on my growing up. We shared considerable time together until I
was about ten years old. Looking back,
Aunt Gladys remained in my life into the early years of my marriage before
fading. In retrospect, Donna and Billy
were really my first playmates until we moved to the Sebren house. Donna and Billy remained in my life after
they moved to National City. After the
move, seeing each other occurred only on visits. They became teenagers before me and our
interests were diverging. As such, their
impact on my teenage years was minimal.
Our interests and activities were totally different, plus the 100 miles
separating us was a major factor in losing contact. Whatever the reasons, it is still sad to have
lost contact with them when they were such a large part of your growing
up. Uncle Walter’s family was also part
of my growing up, but the experiences were considerably different. Certainly different, because his family was
stable and similarly structured like mine.
However, before plunging into experiences with Uncle Walter’s family, it
will be helpful to return to Kansas in the early 20th Century to add
depth to his beginnings and history.
As a refresher, Uncle Walter was born Walter Herman Price on 5 July 1906 in
Olsburg, Kansas to Grandfather Robert
Alfred Price and Grandmother
Charlotte “Lottie” Estelle Price, nee Huckstadt. At some point prior to the births of brother Robert Otto Price and sister Gladys Mae Price, the Price family
moved to Westmoreland, Kansas.
Westmoreland is about 13 miles east of Olsburg, with both towns located
in Pottawatomie County. This county is
situated in the Northeastern part of Kansas.
The reason for moving from Olsburg to Westmoreland is not known, but
perhaps it was the purchase of a farm.
The 1910 Federal Census lists Granddad Price as owning a farm, as an
employer with one laborer. Granddad
Price also owned a general and hardware store.
When this store was purchased is not known, nor whether he still owned
the farm. An old photo shows this store
with people standing in front of it. In
fact, upon close examination Grandfather’s name Robert A. Price can be
seen on the building’s side. I have
assumed the store was in Westmoreland, but this assumption has not been
verified.
Grandfather Price’s General Store, Circa 1910s(?)
This photo’s quality is
insufficient to identify the people standing in the photo. My guess is that the man with the tie is
Granddad Price. The man near the top
stair is in overalls, thus possibly an employee, or a local farmer. While there appears to be three people in the
photo, based on a closer examination the image to the left of the stairs is
possibly a double exposure. Noting the
stairs at the rear of the store raises a question whether they lived above the
store? Living above the store would not
be out of the question, but no way of knowing.
Our Dad and Aunt Gladys were born in Westmoreland after the move from
Olsburg. Tragedy struck the family when
Grandmother Lottie passed away three weeks after Aunt Gladys was born. Grandmother Lottie Price was laid to rest in
the Westmoreland Cemetery. Granddad
Price was left with three young children to raise and a farm to operate and
maybe a store too. I am sure
Great-Grandmother Rosa Huckstadt, as well as other relatives, provided
assistance and care for the children. As
you may remember, Granddad Price eventually left Kansas for California. It has always been a mystery as to why and
when he left everything behind. The Why may never be known, but by
considering Dad’s school records, the 1920 Federal Census and a newly found
Granddad Price obituary, the When he
left can be estimated fairly accurately.
Dad’s education began in
1914 at the Cree school, located in Westmoreland. In the 1919-1920 school year, Dad attended
Cree and Fostoria schools. Research has
shown the Fostoria school was located near Shannon. Shannon is about nine miles Northwest of
Westmoreland. The 1920 Federal Census
lists Walter, Dad and Gladys living with Great-Grandmother Huckstadt in
Shannon. Since Dad told us that our
Great-Grandmother raised them, it appears Granddad Price left for California
sometime during this school year. As you
may remember, Grandfather Price moved to Orange, California and was living with
Great-Grandfather Price. It is not known whether they moved together or
separately. A recently uncovered
obituary aids in solving when he left Kansas, and a reason for his
suicide. The article also provides
additional information about his life in Kansas and surviving relatives.
Obituary for Grandfather Robert Alfred Price
Funeral services for
Granddad Price were held on 21 December 1935.
The obituary states he arrived in Orange 15 years prior to his
death. This information confirms his
arrival in 1920, which also is supported by the 1920 Federal Census. This information also supports Dad’s changing
schools during the 1919-1920 school year, as well as the 1920 Federal Census
listing the Price kids living with Great-Grandmother Rosa Huckstadt. According to the article Granddad Price
worked for the US Government buying and delivering mules during America’s
participation in World War I (1917-1918).
Did he perform this job in conjunction with operating the store, or the
farm? No way of knowing. A possible reason for his suicide is cited in
the obituary.
Apparently, Granddad
Price suffered a severe injury in August 1932.
It is assumed this injury was sustained while diving a truck for an
orange grower’s association, but this fact is unclear. His injury occurred just five months after
the birth of our Half-Aunt Betty Lou
Price. He did not recover from this
injury, and after three years dealing with the situation he committed suicide. Given the nature of Granddad’s death, the
hymns chosen for his funeral seem to have rather ironic titles. In addition to Betty Lou, the article lists
Walter, Robert and Gladys as his children from his Kansas marriage. It also lists his Grandchildren as Donna and
Billy Bramley and a Robert Jr. Hey
that’s me! Also listed is a sister Anna Richards living in Santa Ana and a
brother Nicholas Walter Price living
in Sacramento. My research listed Anna
and Nichols as siblings of Granddad Price, but the article revealed new
information concerning them. First, I
was unaware that Anna married John F. Richards in Pottawatomie County and eventually
moved to Santa Ana. Second, I knew
Nichols lived in Sacramento, but did not know his middle name was Walter. This obituary certainly answered some
questions about our Price family history and genealogy. Given this family background, it is now
possible to resume with Uncle Walter’s history.
Further review of Dad’s
school records shows another school change during the 1920-1921 school
year. The new school, and subsequent
schools he attended, are in the area around Garden City, Kansas. This area Mom, Dad and I visited on our 1940s
Kansas trip. You may remember that
Granddad Price returned to Kansas in October 1922 to take Walter to
California. Walter had contracted
Rheumatic Fever and his recovery was probably hampered by the Kansas climatic
environment. It was believed the warmer
Southern California climate would aid his full recovery. Walter was 16 years old when he left Kansas
to live with Granddad Price and after January 1924 with his Step Mother Opal
Clair Price, nee Stoves. Uncle Walter
attended Orange High School and graduated in 1926 at the age of 19. It is unclear what Uncle Walter did after
graduating from high school, but he apparently became interested in electrical
engineering. What prompted this interest
is not known, but by 1930 he had a job as an electrician with the Sierra Power
Company and was living in Riverside. It
is not known when he moved to Riverside, but it was probably shortly after
graduating from high school. To further
his education, he began attending Riverside Junior College studying electrical
engineering. While attending Riverside
Junior College he. met a young Missouri woman, Dorothea Elmira Newton. Dorothea was majoring in business when she
and Walter met. Dorothea was born
Dorotha, with the difference to be explained shortly.
Dorotha Elmira Newton was born 9 August 1908 in Deerfield, Missouri. Her parents were Emory Eugene Newton and Maud
Newton, nee Hogmire. Dortoha had an older sister, Bernice Irene born 28 December 1906 in
Deerfield, Missouri. After Dortoha’s
birth the Newton family moved to Baker, Oregon where her younger sister Lucille Olivia was born 23 September
1909. Homesteading in Montana appealed
to Mr. Newton, so they moved there and were recorded in the 1910 Federal Census
in School District 30 of Custer County, Montana. However, in the 1920 Federal Census the
Newton’s were listed in School District 47 in Prairie County, Montana. No, they did not move from Custer County to
Prairie County. In 1915, Prairie County
was formed from portions of Custer, Dawson and Fallon counties. The Newton’s homestead was a one room cabin,
which eventually added a log kitchen. It
is assumed that while the school district number changed in 1915, it was the
same school the sisters had been attending.
They attended a three room schoolhouse, which was probably similar to
the one room schoolhouse Water, Dad and Gladys attended in Westmoreland,
Kansas. When their first teacher left
the school and did not return, Mrs. Newton began teaching all eight grades at
the school. Mrs. Newton had been a
teacher in Missouri, and she continued to teach until, probably Bernice, was
ready for high school. At this point,
the Newton family moved to Miles City, the county seat of Custer County. Based upon Bernice’s birthdate and the 1920 Federal
Census, it is assumed this move would have been about 1921 or 1922. This move certainly raises the question
whether Mr. Newton abandoned farming?
How long they lived in Miles City is also unclear, but next they moved
to Riverside, California somewhere abut 1924 or 1925. Dorothea graduated from Polytechnic High
School in Riverside, it is assumed by about 1926 or 1927.
Names recorded in
Federal Census records need careful examination; the Newton family is a case in
point. These records are usually
collected by citizen volunteers who can read and write, but not necessarily able
to spell. In the 1910 records Bernice and Lucille were spelled phonetically as Burniece and Louseil,
while in the 1920 Census Record, their names were spelled correctly. However, Lucile was spelled with only one
l. Then in 1930 record, Lucille’s middle
initial was recorded as a D, not an O.
Dorotha is a special case:
her name had three different spellings from 1910 to 1930. She was listed a Dorthy L. (1910), Dorotha E.
(1920) (her birth name) and finally Dorothea
E. *1930). She did not like Dorotha
and changed it to Dorothea. No idea when
she changed it, but henceforth she was always known as Dorothea or Dot. Thus, it is easy to see that genealogy
research can be very challenging.
After graduating from
high school, Dorothea began majoring in business at Riverside Junior College
where she met Walter. What year they met
is not known, nor the length of the courtship, all that is known for sure is
when they were married. Walter Herman Price married Dorothea Elmira Newton on 17 August
1930 in the Christian Church in Redondo Beach.
Walter’s former Scoutmaster was the minister of this church and
performed the marriage ceremony. They
honeymooned camping in the High Sierras, visiting San Francisco and returning
to Riverside by driving down the coast. While
in Riverside she worked as an Assistant Probation Officer and he was an
electrician for the Sierra Power Company.
Their first child, a daughter, Carol
Fay Price was born 25 December 1936 in Riverside. About a year after her birth, the family
moved to San Bernardino for about a year, then moved back to Riverside. They were still in Riverside at the time of
the 1940 Federal Census. This census
lists Walter as a radio mechanic, whatever that job entails. I envision a person with wrenches,
screwdrivers and hammers working on a radio.
Now I’m sure that was not the case, and he was really a radio
technician. This 1940 data collaborates
Carol’s and my guestimate that the photo of the two Price families in the snow
was probably taken about 1940. I have
discovered a couple of Christmas cards they sent to Mom and Dad, which show
Carol at their front door carrying a present.
My guess is that Carol is about three years old. This photo is one the earliest I have of my Cousin Carol Fay Price. To me she was always Carol, but to Aunt Dot
she was Carol Fay.
Carol Fay Price, Circa 1938
Sometime after the 1940
Census, Uncle Walter, Aunt Dot and Carol Fay moved to Burbank, California.
Yes, Aunt Dot is really Aunt
Dorothea, but I knew her only as Aunt
Dot! When she became Dot, I have not
a clue, although Dot is an obvious contraction of her given name (as modified
by her). Carol believes they moved to
Burbank in 1941, when Uncle Walter was hired by Lockheed Aircraft and was
working at the plant, which was located at the Burbank Airport. Thus, I believe our first visit would have
been that summer of 1941. Further, it
seems 1941 is correct, because Carol would have stated Kindergarten that year. One of my first memories of visiting Uncle
Walter and Aunt Dot were the planes taking off from the airport flying directly
over their house, and very low. One
plane in particular I remember was the Hudson Bomber, which was being built by Lockheed
for the British Royal Air Force for use against Nazi Germany. The planes were so low over the house you
could see the tail wheels still spinning.
A photo of that plane, with full camouflage paint, was shown in the
essay Early Years: 1940 to 1944. Best I can recall is that seeing these planes
was prior to America entering World War II; because I have a faint memory of
Dad and Uncle Walter discussing whether we would enter the European war. Of course, within a few moths the Japanese
bombed Pearl Harbor, and America was swept into World War II. In fact, Carol remembers hearing the radio
announcement about Pearl Harbor being bombed.
Once the war began, gas rationing limited our visits to Burbank. Despite gas rationing, it appears we visited
Burbank during the summer of 1943. While
there is no memory of the visit, there are some photos that define when our
visit occurred.
Early in 1943, there to
two “blessed events”, which prompted our visit to Burbank because there were
two new Price babies! David
“Dave” Alan Price was born 28 January 1943, and Roberta “Berta” Rene Price was born 26 days later on 23 February
1943. After Dave and Berta entered the
world, each family consisted of a girl and a boy. Carol and I were the oldest with almost
identical age differences with our siblings.
Carol and Dave were six years apart, while Beta and I were seven and a
half years apart. Carol and I are 16
months apart and Dave and. Berta are only one month apart. Our parents took a picture of the four of us,
with Carol holding Dave and Berta in my lap.
Berta, Royal Dave and Carol, Circa 1943
Lockheed also produced a
unique WW II fighter, the P-38 Lightning.
Lockheed P-38 Lightning, Circa 1941
The Lightning saw action
in both Europe and Pacific Theatres. I
remember seeing several of them, but I’m not sure whether on this Burbank
visit. It should be noted that the
identifying star on the wing and tail boom existed prior to WW II. The red dot was removed and wide panels added
to both side of the star. This change
was made because US piolets confused the red dot with the Japanese insignia on
their planes.
Uncle Walter was
transferred to the Van Nuys plant in 1944 and the family moved to North
Hollywood. It is unclear how many times
we visited them at this house, but I have two distinct memories of their
house. First, there was no garage, but
only a foundation for one. It was common
practice during the war and for a while after the war to build only the foundation
due to rationing of building materials.
Uncle Walter’s garage was an Army wall tent. There is a photo of their backyard and the
tent. I thought it was very unique!
North Hollywood Garage, Circa 1946
What I also found
unusual about their house was that in the living room, the window sills were
only about six to eight inches above the floor.
Why I found this unique is no clear, but the image has been burned into
my memory for some reason. Also, I seem
to remember that the Burbank house had a brick patio, which they moved to the
North Hollywood house. In fact, I
believe the table and sandbox are sitting on the bricks in the photo.
While I am sure Carol
and I played together, neither of us can remember what we did. I find this somewhat fascinating since I have
lots of memories playing with Donna and Billy.
The best I can conjure up is that we played board and card games. One card game would have been “War” for
sure. In addition, there is an
overexposed photo of me riding a bicycle.
The bike was probably Carol’s, and I was trying it out.
Besides the photo of the
garage there is one photo taken at this house of Carol, Dave and Berta standing
on the front porch. Carol is dressed as
a Dutch girl, which Carol indicated that she was dressed for some type of
dancing. No idea where I was when the
photo was taken. Maybe I was riding the
bike. I am guessing this photo was taken
after the war, and Dave and Berta are about three and a half years old. This would mean Carol was about nine and a half.
Dave, Carol and Berta, Circa 1946
Lockheed developed the
first jet fighter, the F-80 Shooting Star.
I saw my first Shooting Star while visiting Uncle Walter’s in North
Hollywood. It did not have swept wings
like later fighter designs. It was operational
in the Korean War, but was not a match for the Soviet MIG-15.
Lockheed F-80 Shooting Star, Circa 1946
Our Sebren house was
about one mile East of the Long Beach Airport, and during the war airplanes
were seen every day. When hearing a
plane, you looked up in the direction of the plane’s engine noise to see the
plane. Upon hearing the jet, I looked up
as usual and could not see the plane. It
was then I learned to scan the sky in front of the jet noise to locate the
plane. Learning this new plane spotting
technique required several attempts before knowing where to look.
Uncle Walter was still
working in Van Nuys when they moved from North Hollywood to San Fernando. Where they lived now is in the city of Sylmar. According to Carol, this move was in 1947,
but may have been in 1946 so Carol and Dave could attend school for the
1946-1947 school year. This new house
was very small and there was no garage.
A photo of their patio shows the bricks were transported to the new
house. Although there are some other
houses in the photo, the area was outside San Fernando City Limits and was a
developmental area. In fact, the house
had no electricity and kerosene lamps provide light at night. The refrigerator ran on either natural gas or
propane. Yes, it was rather
primitive! But, Uncle Walter and Aunt
Dot were raised in a similar environment and they were familiar with rugged
living conditions.
Sylmar Patio, Circa 1948
We visited them on a
regular basis. It was a 50 mile drive
from our house to their house and took over an hour. It seems like we visited about every six to
eight weeks. I remember listening to
“Ozzie and Harriet” on the radio during the trip home, at least if I did not go
to sleep. There are several experiences
remembered about our visits while they lived here. Some memories are mundane and others are
significant. One experience not
remembered is captured in photos of an outing in the desert. Carol and I estimated our ages to be about 12
and 13 years old, respectively.
Mom, Berta, Royal, Uncle Walter, Dave, Aunt Dot
and Carol, Circa 947
There are a couple of
other outings with everyone that are remembered. We went to Pasadena the day after the Rose
Parade to view the floats. We were able
to walk around a float and even touch the flowers. A few years later, I attended a Rose Parade,
which was much more exciting because of the bands and people on the
floats. Then there were the Drive-in
movies! At the time each car space had a
speaker mounted on a post in fro not the car.
Carol and I would lie on the fender of our Chevrolets rather than watch
the movie from the back seat. At their
house, one of the mundane memories involves a dirt road just beyond Uncle
Walter’s black Chevrolet, and the road had been eroded in spots. Carol remembers
I had some toy soldiers that I played with in these eroded area (my memory is
rather sketchy about these events). There
was an incident that seemed mundane, but in actuality was a learning
experience. There were olive trees near
their house, and since I loved olives an olive was plucked from a tree to
eat. Much to my surprise this raw olive
had a bitter, unpleasant taste and was immediately spit out. I learned that olives must be processed to be
eatable, which raises a profound question.
“How was this process discovered to make olives edible? An extension of this question apples to all
discoveries. In reality, it is human
nature to wonder “why”, explore and innovate.
One final mundane memory involved Dad’s comment as we prepared to leave
for Uncle Walter’s; “This is the last time we will see the house lighted by
kerosene lamps!” Their house was
scheduled to be connected to the power grid the next week. Looking back, it is difficult to imagine in
the early 1950s that not all of Los Angeles County was connected to the power
grid, especially in the LA Basin!
Remaining memories are not so mundane as these, but were more serious.
When Dave was about nine
years old, I believe in the Fourth Grade, a classmate jammed a pencil in his
ear, which punctured his ear drum. When
I ask Aunt Dot why did the classmate do it she said, “The student wanted to see
what would happen.” Neither at the time
nor today do I comprehend why one person sees a need to deliberately injure
another. Finally, Uncle Walter suffered
a serious injury that prevented him from working for quite some time. He was commuting to work on a Cushman motor
scooter and received serious internal injuries due to a fall. While returning from work he came upon some
road construction that required detouring around the construction. This required turning on to a dirt section
that contained loose gravel or rocks.
Hitting the loose gravel, the Cushman slipped out from under him. As I have learned on a bicycle, the fall
happens so quickly you have no way of stopping it. One second you are on the bike, the next
second you ae on the ground. As a
result, Uncle Walter was out of work for quite a while, and I recently learned
from Carol, the family was financially strapped until he could return to work.
I believe when they were
living here, they visited us a couple of times.
There are two experiences I remember from these visits. Carol had an Ant Farm she brought with her
and set in down in our living room. I
had seen them previously and wanted one of my own. When they began to leave, Carol had forgotten
the Ant Farm and was in their car. I did
not say anything hoping it would be left.
However, Carol remembered it and returned to retrieve it. Yeah, that was sneaky, but it would have been
returned on our next visit. On a
separate visit, Dave went to the bathroom just as they were leaving and locked
the door. Of course Dave did not know he
locked the door and did not know how to unlock it. Dave believed his folks were leaving him
behind and started screaming in panic.
Fortunately, the door could be unlocked from the outside. He was quite relieved when we opened the
door. In 1952 they moved again, this
time to Palmdale, California.
Uncle Walter was
transferred to a Lockheed facility at the Palmdale Regional Airport in the
Mojave Desert. Too my knowledge he
performed final electrical inspection on aircraft before delivery to the
customer. Recently, Carol told me that
the move to Palmdale occurred prior to her high school senior year, which was
very upsetting to her. A move at such a
time is traumatic for any teenager. Thus,
Carol attended Antelope Valley High School for her senior year and graduated in
1953. For some unknown reason, I did not
realize both of us graduated high school the same year. I was aware Carol had been promoted a grade,
but did not realize we were in the same grade for several school years.
It seems that our visits
to Uncle Walter’s decreased after they moved to Palmdale. The trip took a little over two hours. When we used the Angeles Crest Highway, I
spent the time looking for flying saucers that had landed. Yes, I know that was stupid, but that was
when I believed they were real. Eventually, Dad let me drive on the way home,
which for me was a definite highlight.
Best I can remember, Carol and I would sit with our Dads and listen to
their conversations. However, within an
hour of sitting down both of them would have dozed off. Must have been a male Price DNA. Carol and I might talk, or we would go listen
to our Moms; they ne never fell asleep.
What topics we discussed, I have no recollection. Although I was surprised when Carol told me
that when her date took her to the drive-in movies, they had to run the engine
so keep the car warm. In fact, the
drive-in theatre provided money, or vouchers, to pay for the gasoline. Palmdale is in the high desert and nighttime
temperatures can be below freezing in the winter.
The year following the
move to Palmdale, Carol began college at Antelope Valley Junior College. At the same time. I started college and
married two years later, as described in the essay College Years: 1953 to 1959. Thus, contact with Uncle Walter, Aunt Dot,
Carol and Dave became less and less.
However, there are a couple of experiences that come to mind.
Aunt Dot had a
pre-Thanksgiving dinner a couple of weeks before the actual holiday. One of these dinners is quite memorable. Aunt Dot’s sister Bernice and her husband “Mac”
McClintock were also usually attending the dinner. Mac was a successful businessman and always
seemed to have the latest gadgets. This
time it was a stereoscopic slide projector, which projected slides in 3D. Each slide was constructed like all slides,
but there were two images in each slide holder.
Whether the photos were identical or different is not known. So, after dinner Mac was presenting a very
unique slide show for us. He came to one
slide that was a photo of Bernice, but Bernice’s face could not be
discerned. Mac was baffled and did not
understand what was wrong with the photos.
Bernice did not like her facial expression and had poked holes in both
images of her face. Mac was
flabbergasted and everyone had a good laugh.
Carol eventually inherited this pre-Thanksgiving dinner at her house,
but that is a story for another time.
The other experience was at Carol’s wedding.
Carol and Tom Pappas
were married in August 1958 in Palmdale.
Immediately after the ceremony the photographer was taking photos of
Tom, Carol and the wedding party, the usual wedding photos. I also took slides at the same time. I would wait until the photographer aligned
everyone, then I would snap a photo just before he took a photo. Sometimes, I took one right after he had
taken one. Best I can remember he was
irritated with me. After my slides were
processed, I gave a set to Carol and Tom.
Carol commented that mine were better than the photographer’s. After the
ceremony and a wedding dinner, we all returned to Uncle Walter’s to see Carol
and Tom off on their honeymoon. In any event, Tom’s friends had smeared his
exhaust pipes with Limburger cheese. Tom
told me later the smell never went away. After the honeymoon Carol and Tom went to the
University of Colorado, where Tom studied pharmacy. Their wedding was the last
time I saw Carol and Tom for several years.
In fact, after Carol’s wedding I do not remember seeing Uncle Walter and
Aunt Dot too often, just when attending the pre-Thanksgiving dinners at the
Pappas’ house. While we did not attend
these dinners every year, contact was maintained with everyone. Thus, contact with Uncle Walter, Aunt Dot,
Carol and Dave continued; unlike my relationships with Aunt Gladys, Donna and Billy,
Unfortunately, Uncle Walter and Aunt Dot passed away in the late 1990s, but I
was able to attend their memorial services.
Despite gaps, Carol and I have remained in touch with each other.
In fact, Carol has
provided valuable assistance with these essays, by proofing and editing most of
the essays. Her assistance on these
essays has allowed us to discuss differences in our families, as well as our
life experiences. My continued contact
with Carol will be discussed in later essays.
Unfortunately, I have lost contact with Dave, but he receives notifications
when a new blog is posted. It is only
appropriate to show adult photos of Carol and Dave, rather than leave everyone
with only childhood images.
Much to my surprise, I
recently discovered Carol graduated from Fresno State College in either 1957,
with a Bachelor’s degree is in business.
Her graduation photo shows a very attractive young woman.
Carol Fay Price, Circa 1957
Although Carol and I
have few memories of our visits and what we did, I have pleasant memories of
being around her. I believe we always
had a good time together when we saw each other. I certainly do not remember having any difficulties
between us. In a way, I remember always thinking
she was the more intelligent one. Throughout
our childhood and whenever I think of her today, Carol seems more like a sister
than a cousin.
Since Dave was nearly
eight years younger than me, contact with him during his teenage years and
adult life were mostly lost. As a
consequence, my memories about him are flawed, but Carol has filled some holes
for me. To my knowledge, after finishing
high school Dave joined the US Navy.
After his discharge from the Navy, Dave married Linda Thayer. I believe they knew each other while in high
school. Dave and Linda divorced a few
years later. Dave worked for Edison in
Hemet for a while. Dave re-married
Sharon while working for Edison. To my
knowledge, Dave was encouraged by a high school friend to come to Bozeman,
Montana and build houses and cabins.
While living in Bozeman, Dave went to college and obtained a Bachelor’s
in Education. After completing his
education, Dave and Sharon joined the Peace Corps and served in Liberia. Dave taught school, while I’m unsure how
Sharon served. After this service they returned
to the Palmdale area and Dave taught school until retirement. Dave and wife Sharon, now live in Arizona.
Dave’s photo was taken
from a Christmas card he sent from Japan.
The last time I saw Dave was at Uncle Walter’s Memorial Service in
1999. His eulogy of Uncle Walter was
amazing. To me, Uncle Walter was a very
quiet man, quite intelligent and very soft spoken. However, Dave’s eulogy clearly demonstrated
how Uncle Walter and Dad were actually “Two Peas in a Pod”. Uncle Walter’s character matched Dad’s almost
identically. The only differences
between them were the actual projects undertaken. They could fix anything, were skilled craftsmen
and were knowledgeable in many subjects!
These two men from Kansas attended a one room schoolhouse, grew up
without a mother, considered education important, advanced in life and helped
raise four accomplished children. A
legacy to be proud of!
David Alan Price, Circa 1964
The impact on my life by
Uncle Walter and Aunt Dot was subtle.
Their influence was low key, probably due to the fact that I only spent
portions of a day with them, as compared to
time with Aunt
Gladys. Uncle Walter was easy to talk
with, but he was very quiet and did not seem to be outspoken. Aunt Dot was totally different. She was very verbal and easy to have a
conversation with. After they moved to
Palmdale, we used to kid each other about smog in the LA Basin and its approach
toward Palmdale. While I learned things
from Uncle Walter, conversation skills were learned from Aunt Dot. Looking back at them now, it is plainly
obvious that Uncle Walter and Aunt Dot were very similar to Mom and Dad in many
respects, which actually re-enforced the lessons learned from my folks.